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We are all unique people with a gift to offer others…

by Leslie Moldenauer | | Spirit, Uncategorized

We are all unique people with a gift to offer others. I am a firm believer that we all possess this gift. I have spoken with quite a few inspiring people both in my field and in other healing fields very recently, and I am so inspired by what individuals bring to the table. They inspired me today to write this. One of the best aspects for me is the collaboration to help people in any way that they can. And the support we have for another’s trials and tribulations…discovering that they are oftentimes not very unique in nature. This is something that I hope more pledge to do as well, baby steps in that direction are important.

Writing a blog, a book, hosting a webinar or training makes the author very vulnerable to many interpretations. I know some that are afraid to share their voice, but they have so much to contribute! I give credit to anyone that is trying to make this world a better place whether it is a writer/speaker who helps the LGBTQ community to know that they are perfect just the way that they are and that they are not alone, a practitioner who works solely with energy to help those around her in any way that she can to breakthrough obstacles and reframe thought patterns, to someone that is bedridden much of her day but still has the best attitude and heart to love and help others, the naturopath who helps sort peoples eating and fitness and influences thousands, and the brilliant researcher that is willing to share all they discover to the communities in which they are a part.

We all have our own individual talents, missions, and purpose. What helps us to get out of bed in the morning wanting to help as many people as possible may be different from your neighbor, whether that is a one on one consultation, a book, a class, or on a stage in front of thousands….living your soul’s true purpose is where we all truly connected, intertwined. This is where we all come together and where we all shine.

I have been criticized for saying there is room for all of us, I have been made fun of for wanting all of us to hold hands and sing kumbaya. I never said those exact words, but I rather like that interpretation of me. This makes my heart smile, because this is my thought process, and I see no fault in that.

Life is meant to live to the fullest and to be happy. My self-care and self-love is always #1, but the more people that I can help in any given day, the more care and compassion I can provide to others…is what it is all about for me.

Read more about my why if you are so inclined.

My hope is that more people find their voice. That more people speak out loud….more articles, more books, and more people speak their truth. That communities come together and overcome our differences, whatever those may be. That we use our gifts to help others to heal and to live their happiest life possible. That people see their light and their gift and shout it from the rooftops.

To you…hoping you are all living your happiest life possible. <3

The Golden Rule-A Reflection of the Aromatherapy Community *Updated

by Leslie Moldenauer | | Essential Oils

In case you are not familiar with the golden rule, it states, “Do unto others as you would have them do to you”, or another version is “Treat others as you would like to be treated.” This rule is imperative in life; it is one that I have taught my boys since they were able to understand what I was saying (I still preach it today, because, well…kids).

I feel that my community, the one that I have dedicated much of the last decade to, can sometimes miss the mark. Those that are super passionate like myself, can at times forget about the way they come across to people online and in social media. I feel confident when I say that if we were in a public setting, things would often not happen the way we “read” them on Facebook. If there is a true “issue”, take it to a private discussion.

I implore everyone to take step back and think how they can better themselves, specific situations, and interactions with one another.

Our industry as a whole, is about helping others, the compassionate healers, and our fellow colleagues should not be an exception to the rule. We SHOULD be thinking about how we can lift each other up, as we all have the same goals, right?

I am all for constructive conversations in Facebook Aromatherapy groups. I often participate in them. I am always conscious in how I may be coming across to others as they are not sitting with me at tea time to see my face, hear my passion, and know my truth. It is important to have this discernment. I do not go out of my way to “prove someone else is wrong”, but rather offer my point of view. Aromatherapy is not always black and white, we do not need to fight our points tooth and nail until threads close down or commenting is turned off and feelings are hurt.

There are plenty of great Facebook groups out there that essential oil enthusiasts can come to get information from. As a qualified aromatherapist, it is important that we understand what we can and can not say, begin to take a look at what we “give away”, and how specific choices may not always be lifting the profession up along the way. At times these things are overlooked, and it tends to ruffles feathers. We do have an option, we can look the other way, or we can leave the group. I understand and share in the frustration at times, but as adults, we have the right to make those choices, and not break the golden rule along the way. Be kind whenever possible, it is always possible.

Another thing to keep in mind is how quickly the industry is blooming, and how many come to us, not only for accurate information, but compassion and care. I know we can do better!

“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much” -Helen Keller

Let’s all work to do better, and be better going forward. It is not our way or the highway.